Anal Sex Toy Guide

One of the most asked questions is "Will using anal sex toys cause damage to my rectum?"
The simple answer is No!

The sphincter muscle is designed to expand and contract an unlimited number of times. Stretching it will not make it any less able to constrict. Long-term studies have found that there was absolutely no loss of muscle tone or the ability to contract regardless of the amount of anal sex a person has.

One thing that you should keep in mind, anal sex is an easy way to give and receive sexually transmitted infections. So be sure to use Condoms and plenty of Lubricant that is condom safe.


Choosing an anal sex toy can be very overwhelming at first, here we will try to make it easier for you. The most important part is to use PLENTY of lubricant. The anus does not produce any natural lubrication.

First we have the beginners to anal sex toys. For these people it is best to stay small, smooth, and non-vibrating. Anal beads are great for the beginner as well as the experienced. We recommend beginners try Anal 101 Intro Beads. Anal Beads are available in all the same size, or each bead is larger then the last. Anal beads are also great when using during climax, pulling them out 1 by 1 for an enhanced orgasm. We also recommend beginners to use a Desensitizing Spray, or Anal Eaze which contains a small amount of desensitizing agent. If you use a desensitizing agent for anal sex we recommend using a condom so the penis does not become desensitized.

Once you feel that you are ready for some more. We recommend trying vibrating anal beads or butt plugs, like Surge Master. The vibrations can help relax your muscles so you can go further. The rectum can accommodate rather thick sex toys. Butt plugs tend to be thicker then dildoes, or vibrators. Butt plugs also have a large flared based for easy removal. When choosing a butt plug be sure to ask yourself how you would like it to feel. Butt plugs are available in smooth texture or ribbed texture. Glass Sex Toys are the best for smooth feeling penetration. For a great glass butt plug try E-Glass Petite Plug. Not only is glass smooth but it is the most sanitary sex toy you can own. Glass sex toys can be cleaned in the dishwasher or boiled clean. They can also be heated or chilled for different sensations. Butt plugs also come in realistic feeling materials. Doc Johnson makes a line called The Lucid Collection. The lucid collection is 100% waterproof, virtually silent and best of all is the surreal feeling. Lucid 72 is a great smooth vibrating butt plug.

Prostate massagers are also very popular. The prostate is a man "g-spott" or "p-spott". The prostate is a magic pleasure button in a man's body that, if stimulated, will produce amazing orgasms. When looking for prostate massagers, look for a sex toy with a pronounced curve at the end to hit the prostate. We recommend the Men's Pleasure Wand.

Other types of anal toys are pumps and anal T's. Pumps can be inserted anally and can be pumped up to desired size. Check out Anal Balloon Pump. Anal T's are Tee shaped sex toys that are made for anal insertion. One of our best selling and high quality anal T is Waterproof InterActive Anal T.

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